I hate the way my mom talks about females?

U need to understand that your mom is hurting bad on the inside of her mind and spirit to say these things. What she says is not normal, and I have a strong feeling that she was abused or somehow made to feel bad about herself when she was small. U might want to do some checking into family history and talk to Aunts or grandparents if any are around where U can speak to them. Something has twisted your mother's way of thinking somewhere down the line. She is to be pitted more than anything. Take care of your brother as best U can and keep setting him straight. Good luck.